Das alles ️ (via @sapi.blog) instagram_post – 13.09.2021 – @nikejane Artikel-Navigation ← Someone is turning 7 this month, so these days I am reflecting a lot on what #modernmotherhood actually means (to me). I’ll soon share a tiny written piece about my personal feelings, but for now I really do want to hear about your thoughts. Are they, just like mine, a bit chaotic, euphoric as well as rational, highly ambivalent, unfinished and always full of feelings? Are they both, a love letter and a goodbye kiss? Are you confused sometimes? What do you adore about being a parent and what is the truly hardest part about it? The biggest challenge? The most annoying, most wonderful side effect? What are you thankful for? What did you learn, what did you forget? What do you miss? And badly need? ️ →Advertising 🫖 Most of my teenage and early adult life I have been wondering why I find it so hard to really grow truly and believe in myself. One main reason might be the lack of support that goes beyond saying „good job“ when it’s already done. I always missed a mentor. Someone who fearlessly shares knowledge and skills. Quite everyone seems to talk a lot about rising by lifting others, since years, but I still see a lot of people who are simply afraid of embracing the power of community (blame it on the system). Which at the end results in a world of soloist who think they have to accomplish everything on their own. And if they need to ask for help, they often think that means they are a failure. I did that, too (many times). But I chose to stop and instead commit myself to bringing flowers to the party embracing radical togetherness Also head to toe #bimbaylolized @bimbaylola today.